Surrendering control

Find a quiet place to go and sit quietly.  Consider all that you have been learning about yourself.  When you are ready, tell God what you are willing to surrender for his removal.  Let God know which defects you cannot quite part with, and remind him that these are not up for grabs just yet.  If you feel so inclined, ask for the willingness at some point in the future to give up the limitations you choose to hold onto.