What Do YOU Need When You’re Hurting?
Well, the question is a bit unfair. A lot of us don’t know what we need when we’re hurting, we just know that we hurt.
Perhaps we should ask the question, “What has helped you before, in retrospect?” Hindsight can truly be 20/20.
Spend some time reflecting on this. Make a list.
Try to remember all of the things that helped, no matter how small.
Was it a walk, or exercise? Being in nature? Writing in a journal? A spiritual discipline? A regular phone call or lunch or some other meetup with a friend?
Share your ideas!
Don’t let any foul words come out of your mouth. Only say what is helpful when it is needed for building up the community so that it benefits those who hear what you say.
Ephesians 4:29